Husbands having affairs seems to be a common occurrence in today’s society. In fact, they seem as if they are increasing in popularity. Although it is often difficult to associate good news with a cheating husband, there is good news. That good news is that it is relatively easy for you to catch your cheating husband, especially when you know what signs to look for.
As previously stated, there are signs that you can look for to help you determine if your husband is cheating on you. With that being said, some of these signs are so small that they often go unnoticed. To help provide you with assistance, some signs that you will want to look for to see if your husband is cheating on you are highlighted below.
1 – Changed Appearance
If your husband has changed his appearance dramatically in one way or another, it can be a sign of cheating. For example, he could change the style of clothing that he wears, either shave or decide to grow a beard, or start wearing cologne when he never had before. Another major sign to look for, in terms of changed appearance, is if your husband takes extra steps to ensure that he looks his best for work or when going out with friends.
2 – Unusual Schedule Changes
If your husband has had some uncommon and unusual changes in his schedule, this could be a sign that he is cheating. For example, does your husband normally not work overtime or stay late? If he has started doing so all of a sudden, there is a good chance that cheating may be to blame. What about common or unexpected business trips?
In addition to changes with a work schedule, your husband’s friendships should also be closely examined. When your husband spends time with his friends is he gone longer than usual? Has a new friend or family member recently appeared in the picture?
3 – A Loss of Interest in Family
One of the biggest signs of a cheating husband is the loss of interest in family. Are you and your husband parents? If so, has your husband completely lost interest in doing things with you or your children? Your husband may be cheating if he would much rather spend time alone or with friends than with you or your family.
4 – Displaying Guilt
If your husband really is having an affair, he is likely to be dealing with a large amount of guilt. This guilt can typically work two ways. He could show you much more attention and give you more affection then he normally does. On the other hand, he can display anger and frustration with you. Anger often tends to give cheating husbands a reason not to feel so guilty.
5 – Unusual Phone Use
Another good sign that your husband may be cheating on you is if he acts weird when using the phone. Does your husband get quiet when you enter the room or does he hang-up the phone? Is his mobile phone being used to talk to “friends,” as opposed to your family phone? If so, try to get hold of your husband’s mobile phone to examine the call log or else checkout the phone bill. This should be done because your husband may be cheating on you.
The above mentioned signs are just a few of the many signs that your husband may be a cheater. With that said, the above mentioned signs are a few of the easiest to catch. As difficult as it can be for you to learn that your husband is cheating on you, it is important to think about the long-term situation at hand. Knowing is better than speculating. In fact, your husband and his cheating ways can put your health at risk with the transmission of sex related diseases. Also, if you are a parent, you have your children’s safety and wellbeing to take into consideration.
If you do suspect he is cheating on you, one of the best places to start is with the mobile phone. Many cheaters use their mobile phones as an easy means of communication. In fact, did you know that many will use their mobile phones as opposed to the family phone? Many do so because there is less of a chance that you or someone else, like one of your children, will pick up the phone. Since mobile phones are a common means of communication for cheating husbands, you should use this to your advantage.
What it is important to know about mobile phones is that they keep very accurate records. All mobile phones, even those that are older, keep a call log. Often times, the calls that are made, the calls that are received, and the calls that are missed are recorded. You should be provided with a date and a time. If you can get a hold of your partner’s cell phone, do it. Even if you have to grab the phone in the middle of the night and check its history in the bathroom, do so.
When checking your partner’s mobile phone for suspicious activity, you will want to be on the lookout for names or telephone numbers that you do not recognize. Also, look for constant calls to or from a certain number. If your partner is calling one number multiple times a day or every day, they may be cheating on you. In addition to checking the call log, also examine picture messages and text messages. These are easier to delete, but many cheaters do not take the simple step needed to do so because they don’t believe that they will get caught.
In addition to the mobile phone itself, you can also use mobile phone bills as method to catch a cheater. This works best if you are married to your partner or if you live with them, as it should be easy for you to gain access to their mobile phone bill. Does your partner’s mobile phone bill list the phone numbers that are called or the phone numbers that text messages were sent to? If it does, be on the lookout for unknown numbers or repeated communication.
Although not all mobile phone bills itemize information, like on the phone calls received or placed, many companies do give you the option of doing so. If you are the one who is responsible for paying the mobile phone bill or if you are married, you may be able to change the format of your partner’s mobile phone bill. A quick call or email to the phone company should be enough to catch your cheating partner the next time that the phone bill arrives.
The above mentioned steps are just a few of the many easy ways that you can use your partner’s mobile phone and mobile phone bill to see if they are cheating on you. If you see that your partner hangs up the phone whenever you enter the room or if they lower their voice, there is a good chance that they are hiding something from you.